Be careful in Giving Advice

I will start with true story ... (He.. He .. scary), which is a story of a dialogue with the teachers at the sidelines of the suave after giving a presentation with the theme as above, in An Islamic university in North Sumatra.One senior lecturer staff, excerpts convey a simple story, which should be used as reference in everyday life, here's her story:
It is said, a famous Preacher is doing a lecture in a mosque which is located adjacent to his home. The contents of the Preacher's lecture can be heard clearly by his wife through the speaker, who was in his home.Theme raised by the Preacher is the "Perfection of faith", tracing to a statement (hadith): "No one's perfect faith, if not love his brother does not like love itself" and "No one's perfect faith unless they have been able to deliver treasure the most he loved, for the purposes Fisabilillah. "He was clearly peeling stories of friends who provide treasures for Fisabilillah favorite, with a fluent and interesting.Interested in the content of lectures her husband, the wife of the Preacher, was determined to improve her husband's faith, that by cutting off her husband's pet chicken pelung and wherewithal to his neighbors. It is said that her husband if each finished giving lectures and the first time in doing when he arrived home, is always looking her favorite chicken first.Well, short stories, ... when the Preacher finished lectures and went straight home, as usual, the first time he did was look into his chicken coop, terperanjatlah when he found an empty chicken coop.More shocked again the Preacher, after his wife gave answer, that the chicken was used for the perfection of faith the Preacher, because his wife feels, the Preacher not been fulfilled as diceramahkannya details just now ... (He.. He knows his wife was so annoyed .. aja .. times ... because who stroked cocks ..)As I limp the Preacher commented: aduuuh mother, ... mother !!... all of which you spoke them was that, especially for umaaat, not for us ... if we are different again for his statement .......?????? (Ha.. Ha .... if no one is laughing, let alone laugh aja deh ..)Simple, simple, often found, and perhaps even we ourselves often do things like this ...Ibrah (lessons) that can be learned from this story is ...;1. We're very good at giving advice to others, but we are not good at doing what we advise itself (the Word of God: What a sight of Allah's wrath, against what he said but he had never done).2. We often unjust, we feel happy when others suffer, and feel hard when everyone else is happy. (Word of God: Applies fair, because it's fairly close to Taqwa.